Jan
24

Summer: Endless Possibility

A high school student’s ideal summer vacation should involve growth, learning, relaxation and fun. Summer is a time for exploration and skill building. It is an opportunity to extend learning beyond the confines of the classroom. Though it’s January and summer seems eons away, students and parents should begin discussing and researching summer options sooner than later. Some important questions to ask as you embark on the process:

  1. What would you most like to explore this summer that isn’t taught in school? This could be an academic subject, a skill set, a hobby, etc. Perhaps you’ve always been interested in learning a language that isn’t taught at your high school. Or you’re eager to explore what an architect does on a daily basis. Or you want to experience working with children, the elderly or the environment. Use your summer vacation to expand your knowledge.
  2. How important is it for you to earn money over the summer? This is a critical question. Due to a range of circumstances is it necessary for you to earn and save money over the summer? If the answer is yes, you will need to aggressively pursue paid employment. College admission counselors don’t place a higher value on summer academic programs over paid employment. The responsibility and skills gained through employment, whether as a lifeguard, camp counselor, snack shop employee or cashier, can prepare you for the future that lies ahead.
  3. How much money can your family invest in a summer program? There are amazing summer programs– academic experiences, travel, service work– for students to consider. Many of these programs can be pricey. As a family you need to seriously consider how much money you can invest in a summer learning experience. There is not a direct correlation between pricey summer programs and college acceptances.
  4. What might you want to discover about yourself? Summer is a fantastic opportunity to challenge yourself into exploring previously undiscovered dimensions of your personality or interests. Consider ways to move beyond your comfort zone as you develop your summer possibilities.

The bottom line is whether you choose to pursue an internship, research position, employment, travel, summer academic program, etc., college admission counselors will not elevate one of these experiences above all others. Every student is different. Everyone’s goals are different. And at the end of the day you should utilize your summer in a way that is most appropriate for you.

What are your plans for Summer 2012? What programs or experiences would you recommend for high school students?

 


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Jan
09

Simple Financial Assistance Tips

I would never claim to be an expert on financial assistance, college financing plans or pretty much anything that has to do with the money side of college. Admissions, yes expert. Finances, not so much. Still I think it’s been important for me to gain a broad understanding of the financial assistance side of things. After all life won’t go so smoothly if my clients have ten acceptance letters (yay!) and the inability to finance their education.  I teamed up with college financial assistance counselors to provide these tips since this isn’t my forte.

An ongoing NYTimes series answers questions about the financial assistance process. Hopefully it will be as helpful to you as it’s been to me.

There is enough financial assistance available to make it possible for you to get a college education. Assistance in the form of scholarships and grants, subsidized student loans, and on-campus part time jobs is available to you if you qualify for need-based financial aid. Typically, all that is required to access these resources is the completion of an application — the Free Application for Federal Student Aid (FAFSA). The result is a determination of your eligibility for need-based financial aid. The FAFSA must be completed in order to receive need-based financial aid.

Check with your college to see if any additional forms are required. Many schools require students to complete the CSS Profile form as well.

Required Information – The financial information requested on the form is based on the federal income tax returns you and your parents file during your senior year, and the form is available to be filed after January 1. You should file the form as soon as possible after it becomes available. If your family’s federal income tax has not been filed, you can estimate the amounts based on the previous year’s tax return.

Due Date – The FAFSA contains a list of the 50 states with a different deadline date for each state. It’s important to file the FAFSA by your school’s deadline date to receive the max amount of aid possible. Remember that you must fill this out every year you are in college.

Here are some key words and acronyms you will encounter as you go through the process of applying for need-based financial aid.

EFC – Expected Family Contribution is the calculated amount your family should be able to pay for one year of your college education, based on the information contained in your FAFSA.

SAR – The Student Aid Report will be mailed to you upon the completion of the FAFSA. It lists all the information that you submitted on the FAFSA. It is important that you check the accuracy of the information; if you find an error, you have the opportunity to correct it. The SAR also contains your EFC amount in the upper right- hand corner of the form.

Cost Of Attendance – The Cost of Attendance is the total cost of one year to attend a particular school and is made up of tuition, fees, room, board, books, incidental expenses (recreation, laundry, personal grooming, etc.) and travel to and from home. Each school will have its own unique Cost of Attendance. A school’s Cost of Attendance is usually available on the school’s web site.

Need – Your “Need” is the Cost of Attendance minus your Expected Family Contribution — the amount to be filled by a financial aid award package.

Financial Aid Award Package – The total amount of financial aid awarded by a particular school that fills your “Need.” The package is made up of scholarships, grants, work study and student loans.

FWS – The Federal Work-Study Program subsidizes your earnings while working part- time on your college campus. You must be eligible to receive need-based financial aid to participate in the program.

 


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Dec
13

Dear Alma Mater: Debating Legacy Preference

In my ongoing quest to read the college admissions literary cannon (reminiscent of the days of being a history graduate student) I just completed The Price of Admission: How America’s Ruling Class Buys Its Way into Elite Colleges– and Who Gets Left Outside the Gates by Daniel Golden. Talk about an eye opening read. In my years as an admission counselor I was well aware of development cases, alumni children, athletes, and underrepresented minorities. I know first hand that these groups have a hook that often improve their chances for admission. I remember what it’s like to sit with the admissions committee, debating student files, and know that an alumni child with lesser qualifications is going to be admitted ahead of an “unhooked” applicant. This is a part of the admissions business (ah yes, I did in fact call it a business) that has always left me feeling a bit uneasy.

I feel like I have to tread somewhat lightly on this subject.  I’d like to see all legacy based admissions processes abolished but (there’s always a but, right?) I have two daughters who will eventually apply to college. Do I think they should be given preference and privilege over other students when they apply to college? Not at all. However, I’d be lying if I didn’t admit that deep down, if they want to attend my alma mater, I’d love to see them have the opportunity to attend the school my husband and I love so much. Disclaimer: My husband and I are Washington University alumni. His parents and all of our siblings (his two and my three) are Washington University alums. If legacy preferences remain in place in the next decade, my daughters may break the record for Washington U. alumni connections.

But my daughters shouldn’t need legacy preference for admission. They are already the product of fortunate circumstances– premiere education, access to extracurricular activities, a book filled home, parents with college and graduate level educations. What I’m saying is that they’ve already received a leg up in terms of admissions. They shouldn’t need a further boost, from our alumni status, to gain them admission. If they don’t have the qualifications to attend Washington University (I should know right. After all I do this for a living.) they will not be applying there. There are hundreds of other excellent schools for them to consider.

Daniel Golden’s book forces the reader to consider these issues. I highly recommend reading this book if you want to better understand one of the darker sides of admissions. Then I’d love to hear what you think about this topic.

 


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Dec
05

College Fair Thee Well

I love a good college fair. There’s such an energy in the room as hundreds, sometimes thousands of students, glide from booth to booth charming college reps, collecting mountains of brochures, and rewriting name/address/email/major on dozens of contact cards. As an admissions counselor for a popular selective university, my booth tended to be extremely well attended. Endless students and parents inquired about everything from admissions statistics to our athletic programs to campus meal plans. I had to be quick on the draw– alert, smiling (always), and full of the right answers. The bigger the fair the more it felt like a marathon of speaking proportions.

The NACAC (National Association for College Admission Counseling) college fairs, the granddaddy of all fairs, will be held in various cities throughout the US this spring. I love these fairs for their sheer magnitude. They are HUGE! If you want to see a giant college fair, this is it. There’s nothing better. NACAC’s website has several useful pages of advice about attending college fairs.

Here’s what I think you need:

  • comfortable shoes (really are there any times in life when uncomfortable shoes are recommended?)
  • a smile (everyone wants to talk to a smiler!)
  • a willingness to talk and listen
  • a bottle of water (you’ll be parched from all the talking)
  • snacks (healthy, yummy or both, your call)
  • a bag to hold brochures/catalogs/pens
  • printed labels with name/address/phone/email/high school/graduation year for placing on registration cards OR even better, look into this new option from NACAC
  • a map so you can find the schools on your list

Have fun!

 

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Nov
29

SAT Cheaters: A Short Additional Commentary

The story of the Long Island students caught cheating on the SAT and ACT has been a media sensation. Ever since the story first broke in September, the media has focused considerable coverage on all angles– the students who cheated, the payments, their community, their high schools, the standardized tests. Today the last two students surrendered to the police ending one chapter of this dramatic saga. Sadly I haven’t seen much attention devoted to the psychology and social commentary of why this happened in the first place. The race to gain admission at the top colleges in this country has reached a depressing pinnacle. Students will now go to any lengths necessary to ensure high test scores. What does this say about our higher education system? What does this say about the pressure on America’s teenagers? It’s a sad day when bright students toss aside their values and moral integrity in the hopes of achieving a high test score. I know this cheating episode will affect the debate over (standardized) test optional admissions and the relentless pressure of the admissions process. I’d like to see the discussion move beyond the criminal aspects of the cheating ring and focus instead on realistic responses to the stress of the application process.

What are your thoughts on the cheating ring? How do you think we can make the admissions process more equitable and less stressful?

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Nov
22

Giving Thanks

A roof over your head. Food on the table. Clothes on your body. Access to education. The ability to participate in endless athletics, community service, clubs and organizations.  A mind to learn. A body healthy enough to accomplish your goals. Family and friends who nurture and support you.

At this time of year it’s easy to feel the crushing burden of college admissions, applications to complete, and heavy academic courseloads. To find time to give thanks amidst the pressures and obligations can be downright overwhelming. But take time this week to take a step back and look at all of the richness and blessings in your life.

Each of you will find a college to attend. You may not end up at your current first choice, but each and every one of you will find a place to call home next year. And try to understand that it is truly a privilege to have the higher education opportunities we so often take for granted in the United States.  As Americans we have remarkable choices and access. While the admissions process is far from ideal, at least students have the ability to determine their futures.

Spend this week enjoying time with friends and family, eating delicious bounties of delectables, and thinking about all of the blessings you have in your life. This is a perfect time to sit in front of your computer (another blessing) and work on any remaining essays and applications you need to complete. With your heart full of happiness and your belly full of good food, I have no doubt that you will find inspiration for those lingering applications.

I give thanks for your readership and for having the opportunity to touch all of you through my writing. Happy Thanksgiving.

 

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Nov
14

Early Decision: The Waiting is the Hardest Part

Thank you Tom Petty for providing this week’s blog title. Indeed, if you’ve submitted an early decision application, “the waiting is the hardest part.” So what is a student to do during this roughly one month of waiting? If you think the answer is nothing, you’re wrong. Let me share some tips on what to do over the next few weeks.

Plan B- There’s a chance that you won’t be admitted early decision. Even though you have a statistical advantage to being admitted early over regular, there are still large numbers of students who are deferred or denied admission. You need to establish Plan B. What other schools interest you? Where else will you submit applications in December and January? Don’t wait until December 15 to determine Plan B.

Essays- You should assume that there’s a decent chance that you will need to submit other applications. Do not wait until you hear back from your ED school to start writing essays for additional schools. If you’re feeling disappointed about your ED school and you’re crunched for time, your essays for other schools will not be as strong as they could have been. Spend time over the next four weeks working on essays for your other schools. Best case scenario– you had a little extra writing practice and you get to scrap all of those essays!

Deadlines- Check deadlines for other schools’ applications and scholarships. You don’t want to miss out on scholarship money or a chance for admission because you were so focused on your ED school. Also confirm with your college counselor internal high school deadlines. Many high schools require submission of all materials prior to winter break. I can’t stress enough how self-destructive it is to wait until the 11th hour to complete application materials.

Scholarships- Many colleges require students to submit separate merit scholarship application forms. Even if you’ve submitted an early decision application you may still need to complete scholarship forms. Determine deadlines and prepare accordingly.

Don’t make the proverbial error of putting all of your eggs in one basket. Take time over the coming weeks to prepare for every scenario. This will ensure maximum preparation, success and peace of mind. Best wishes to all who applied early.

 

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Nov
01

Namaste: The Intersection of Yoga and College Admissions

I’ve been committing a big yoga no-no lately.  As I’ve been so busy helping students with essay brainstorming and editing, Common Application reviews, and the impending doom of looming deadlines, I’ve been neglecting my focus in yoga. Over the last couple of weeks, as my mind has wandered from downward facing dog, eagle pose and the various warriors, it’s occurred to me that yoga has much to teach the student applying to college. The lessons of yoga can help the stressed-to-the-brink senior see the admissions process from another perspective. Some thoughts on the subject:

  1. Be in the moment. It is so easy for us, with the incredible number of responsibilities we all have, to lose focus and become anxious about future events. Yoga teaches the importance of focusing on the immediate moment. The admissions process should be regarded in the same way. Yes, it is inherent in applying to college that the future is an obvious consideration. Playing the “what if” game does no good as applications are submitted and the waiting begins. Focus on the here and now: completing solid applications, maintaining grades, having fun with friends, relaxing. There will be time to consider admissions, denials, and financial assistance packages. Today, without all of the information available, it is impossible to do so.
  2. Concentrate on your place within your mat. Yoga is done on a small rectangular mat about the size of a throw blanket. Although a class may be filled with eager yogis, students should focus on themselves and their own practice. There is no need to look to the left and right to see what other students are doing. Yoga allows students to concentrate on their own practices. It shouldn’t matter if someone else can do a headstand– yoga is not about competition with others. While the application process is competitive, there is no need to look at what others are doing. Concentration should shift to one’s own application process. Where others apply, when their applications are submitted, what their essays discuss, it is all irrelevant. The students who find the most success and calm through the admissions process tune out the chatter and focus on themselves.
  3. Look inward. Yoga requires deep introspection. Moving into challenging asanas (yoga poses) requires the yogi to look inward, releasing previous notions and challenging the body to achieve. While yoga is overtly physical, there is a significant introspective process that takes place. A student cannot expect to navigate the application process without looking inward. This is a time of great introspection as students determine their future plans. Spending time getting to know oneself is essential. How else can a student expect to write a heartfelt, meaningful essay if deep consideration about oneself hasn’t occurred.
  4. It takes time to achieve. First time yogis often feel frustrated that they can’t move their bodies into challenging poses. Yoga is a step-by-step process. When one pose is mastered that can lead into more challenging ones. The admissions process is similar. A student can’t expect that an entire application will be completed successfully in one evening. While it might be possible, it may end painfully, with the end result failing to be a glowing reflection of the student. Students need to give themselves time to complete the applications, especially the essays. Step-by-step. One thing at a time.
  5. Breathe. Oh how easy it is to forget to breathe in yoga. Physical discomfort makes our bodies forget to inhale and exhale smoothly and calmly. Perhaps I should begin college counseling sessions with a brief meditation and guided breathing practice. I know it would help to alleviate some of the stress of my students. The admissions process will end. It will end successfully for the vast majority of students. Don’t forget to breathe.

How else do you think yoga can inform college admissions? How do you find inner peace through this process?

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Oct
17

Acing the Interview

Many of you seniors will begin to be contacted over the next few weeks and months about admissions interviews. Here are some no nonsense Dos and Donts to prepare you for your interview. And please allow me the liberty of just one cliche– the best advice of all is to be your wonderful, amazing, fascinating self.

Do Come Prepared – Before your interview spend some time researching the school. Learn basic information about the institution so that you don’t need to spend time asking those questions of your interviewer. Formulate several questions that you can ask. Remember, an interview isn’t just about being asked questions, it’s about asking them too.

Do Arrive On Time – It would be a shame to start an otherwise fantastic interview off on the wrong foot. No one likes to be made to wait for someone else, so make sure to get there with time to spare. Know where you’re going and when you need to be there.

Do Dress Appropriately – Think business casual. You are a high school student, after all, so wearing a three-piece suit will look ridiculous. A nice outfit, even a clean pair of jeans and nice top would be appropriate. Something along the lines of what you would wear to the theater (not the movie variety) or a nice dinner would fit the bill.

Do Come Ready To Chat – The whole purpose of an interview is to have a conversation. If you engage the interviewer and dive head first into the questions he/she poses, your interview will be more of a conversation (good) and less of a question-and-answer session (bad).

Do Ask Questions – A good interview will involve a nice give-and-take, a volleying of questions and answers by both the interviewer and the interviewee.

Do Engage The Interviewer – Find some way to connect. An interviewer may interview numerous students in a row, so it is important to find a positive way to stand out. If you are able to connect with your interviewer by finding some sort of common ground, whether it be a love of sports, art or movie, you will best make yourself memorable.

Do Write A Thank You Note – After the interview, write a personal note to the interviewer. This small touch can have big gains for you. Even if the interview is average, at least the interviewer will remember that you have good manners.

Don’t Have An Interview If You Aren’t Interested In The School – If you have no interest in your dad’s alma mater, don’t waste the interviewer’s time by scheduling an interview. Your disinterest will be immediately obvious and the interview will be a bomb.

Don’t Have An Interview If You Are Painfully Shy Or Unbelievably Uncomfortable Around Strangers – You know who you are. If the thought of chatting with a stranger makes you want to run to the hills, do yourself and the interviewer a favor and think twice about having an interview. Remember, at most schools interviews are optional, so a negative interview can be extremely detrimental.

Don’t Chew Gum – Even if you are the daintiest gum chewer or a world class bubble blower, when you get nervous, you’re going to chew like a farm animal and subconsciously blow bubbles. Spit the gum out before your interview.

Don’t Interrupt – No one likes to be interrupted. If you are nervous or get really excited during the interview you might start to interrupt your interviewer. Don’t do it — it’s rude.

Don’t Wear Apparel From Another University – Tsk tsk, how could you wear a Michigan sweatshirt to your Ohio State interview?! Eeek!

Don’t Wear Anything Provocative – If you don’t want to create an uncomfortable situation, leave that skimpy top, mini-skirt or other risqué clothing at home. You’re interviewing for college, not hitting the clubs.

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Oct
11

Our Official College Preparation Checklist

This week we bring you the official Getting To The Quad College Preparation Checklist, a comprehensive year by year look at college preparation. If you’ve been wondering, “What should I be doing my sophomore year?” or “How much should I have completed by my senior year?” this checklist is for you. It is not intended to scare you, rather it is meant to be a guide to help you organize, prioritize and set expectations. Future blog posts will continue to focus on many individual aspects of the checklist. If you’d like further explanation of any checklist line items, please be sure to send the friendly Getting To The Quad staff an e-mail or post right here on the blog. Let’s plan to manage the checklist together.

College Preparation Timeline – GTTQ


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